End People Pleasing Live Your Own Unrepeatable Life
"I’m really happy I lived your life."
Said nobody. Ever. On their deathbed.
Yet that’s what happens with people-pleasing and other ways of adapting to be loved, to belong, and to feel legitimate. We get so focused on what the other person needs from us (so that we can be loved) that we forget what it is to live own unique life.
We perform "good", "nice", perfect, and easy to get along with.
In the process we abandon ourselves
Which is not just sad.
It’s tragic.
We didn’t show up to live somebody else’s life.
We’re here to express our most unique life.
Sometime in the past somebody convinced you that you weren’t enough.
It’s not true.
You were set up to:
- Say "yes" when you mean "no"
- Hide your true self for fear of being rejected
- Never express your own needs
- Not speak up
- Avoid conflict
- Never ask for what you need
- And then feel resentful
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“The false self is for survival.
The true self is for life”
(Andrew Feldmar)
“The false self is for survival. The true self is for life”
(Andrew Feldmar)
Coming Soon!
The Goodness Trap:
How to End People-Pleasing and Live Your Own Heart-Centred Life
This book describes how to end the people-pleasing identity and shift into your true, heart-centred self.
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