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The Past Is Not Dead. It’s Not Even Past.
“The past is not dead. It’s not even past.” — William Faulkner The Past Is Our Default Setting : The Hidden Neural Loops Most of us, most of the time, live in and through the past. But the past isn’t just what happened back then. It’s the neural networks grooved into our brains, shaped by … Read more
Read MoreBreak Free from the Grip of the Past: The Trauma Signature
Introduction: What Is the Trauma Signature? The Trauma Signature, also known as the Trauma Self, Survivor Self, Trying Self, Performative Self, or simply “ego,” is the self-protective ego we construct to shield ourselves from the pain of past wounds. Identifying it and dissolving it is how we break free from the grip of the past. … Read more
Read MoreThe Heart Self Signature: Living from Your Authentic Essence
Introduction: What Is the Heart Self Signature? Just as we each carry a unique trauma signature shaped by our past experiences, fears, and limiting beliefs, we also possess a Heart Self Signature—the blueprint of our true, authentic self. While the trauma signature reflects survival patterns and self-protection, the Heart Self Signature embodies our natural, spontaneous, … Read more
Read MoreFawning Is the Compulsion to Appease Others.
Introduction: Fawning Is the Compulsion to appease others Fawning is the compulsion to appease others. When we think of stress or danger, responses like “fight,” “flight,” or “freeze” often come to mind. But there’s a lesser-known trauma response that’s deeply tied to people-pleasing: fawning. Coined by psychotherapist Pete Walker, is a survival mechanism that prioritizes … Read more
Read MoreEarly Imprints Shape Our Life: Breaking the Trance
“I consider many adults (including myself) are or have been, more or less, in a hypnotic trance, induced in early infancy: we remain in this state – when we dead awaken, as Ibsen has one of his characters say – we shall find that we have never lived.”—R.D. Laing. In other words, early imprints shape … Read more
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