Have you ever felt like an actor in a play that someone else wrote?
Like you’re performing a role for approval, acceptance, or peace?
This is a heavy script to carry.
To boot, your life is then a performance.
In somebody else’s script.
It’s a performance of the lines and the part that you think will get you love, approval and acceptance.
But all of this is made up in your mind. It’s a fantasy that is based in your past experience.
Experiences of mistreatment and failures of love.
Which left you feeling like you’re not enough.
But it’s exhausting and depressing to act out a life that doesn’t feel like yours.
What if you put down that script?
What if, instead of reacting to others’ expectations, you chose your own lines?
Today, take one small step to make your life your own.
One choice that feels true to you, even if it’s small.
The truest story is the one you write yourself.
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Here are some ways I can support you when you feel ready.
- Free End People Pleasing Consultation: We’ll look at what exactly is going on in your life right now and establish best next steps for you to end people-pleasing: Click here.
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- Book a therapy session with me: Email me at bruce@brucesanguin.ca.